AND YET!!!!
Take care of a loved one to the end, take photos and videos...to the end....and 5 years later looking at them....your heart will soar with love having known them before and throughout EVEN this long time.
Trust God’s Plan. You will understand it only in hindsight, if even then.
Purgatory is no better, might be much longer.
I worked with and donated to an organization in Israel called Melabev https://www.melabev.org.il/en/about-melabev/. I got to know a few of the directors and heard some of the stories. I wonder how far along Biden is. One of the directors joked that the nice thing is that you can have a birthday party one day, and the next day can have another one because the patient would have forgotten yesterday. I wonder if Biden can remember his own birthday. Very sad. We are in big trouble and only God can get us out of this mess.