Interesting analogy.
But a fire burns the person. A lighted match is minor. And people will tell you about it.
In 554 years since I heard about abortion from the girls on the Catholic school playground lunch time chat I have heard second hand from 4 girls who had abortions. 3 or so third hand
Women tell each other about everything. Not abortion.
So it’s different
Good judgment comes from experience; experience comes from bad judgment.
Hence an argument that men cannot understand abortion. A straw man argument.