Women don't like it in men, either.
A slut is a slut regardless if they are a man or woman.
You’re right and I wish that we could have a more Disneyfied culture on this point.
However, it comes down to biological differences. Men do not care as much about a woman’s ability to provide, but how exclusive she can be with him. Women care more about a man’s ability to provide than whether he can be lifelong exclusive to her.
I’ve been a member of a marriage/divorce fight, just out of interest, and one thing I founnd is that, if a man isn’t highly experienced by the time he’s in his twenties women don’t want him.
I agree. And I have never believed casual sex was good for men anymore than women.
metmom: Women don't like it in men, either.
Yeah, women want a really pure man - preferably a virgin.
Meanwhile, back on planet Earth, women want the dynamic, socially confident, physically attractive go-getters willing and able to invest the time and energy necessary to land multiple bed-partners.
To be a male "town bicycle" requires lots of effort and "game" and is hence a signifier of / placeholder for high value.
For a woman, however, it requires no effort. A simple announcement at closing time at the local bar will suffice.
Regards,
Women are the gatekeepers of sex not men. Fact is 90 % of women only sleep with 10% of the men who are considered top tier. They also go for the bad boy thugs .
The Big War will change all this quick. After the conflict—a wedding boom and then a baby boom—common after a war.
Women don’t like it in men, either.
A slut is a slut regardless if they are a man or woman.
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Plus you are likely to spread some disease. So, as I said to my teenage sons: “Stay zipped up.”
Women don’t like it in men, either.
I noticed an interesting phenomenon when I was young and recently divorced. If I was in the company of a woman (even just a friend) other women became interested. When I played guitar at parties and clubs and a woman approached and showed interest, I’d suddenly find myself standing in the midst of a group of women seeking my attention.
It seems that many women gauge a man’s attractiveness based on whether other women are interested/involved.
Hey MM. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are gate keepers to commitment and resources. If they give those away for nothing, the opposite sex views them as low value. Its hard wired biology.