You wouldn’t start a business with a partner if those were the rules. Courts treat divorces just like breaking up a business. But one side gets all the breaks.
About 50% of marriages and 90% of businesses fail. In both cases, the number one cause of failure is having a partner. Investors are ok, but never ever go into business with a partner. Be the one and only boss. In this day and age, that rule might apply to starting a family as well. Rent a brainy university student for 9 months to manufacture a natural heir, and homeschool the child using AI as force multiplier.
Prenup, prenup, prenup.
Guess you got screwed. I would never start a business with a partner like that so why would I marry one like that?
If you do research in a potential business partnership why wouldn’t you do the same for a wife?
I was best man at a friend’s wedding several years ago. 7 groomsmen, myself and the groom went to a local county bar before the wedding and toasted the groom. I asked a simple question because I knew all of them quite well. How many times have you guys each been married?
Answer: 27 times was the total between 9 guys. I was the only 1 married once and still married for 51 years.
Life’s about choices..choose right.
It’s broken.
On top of that, young men have to deal with dating apps - where 90% of the women think they’re ‘a 10’, while being ‘a 5’ in reality, and go after the same top 5% of men....6’+, 6 pack abs, 6 figure salary - AT MINIMUM.
Resulting in those top 5% of men treating them badly, as there’s an endless line of them, and causing women to think ‘all men are trash’.
No...the men YOU’RE GOING FOR are, all while the good and descent men are ignored.
At least there’s the new “drizzle drizzle” movement and “soft guy era” that has emerged to ridicule these women...as consequence of the “sprinkle sprinkle” women in 2023 that have insane ‘minimum standards’ for a man.
While it’s all absurd, we’re learning a lot about human dynamics.
Many men want it both ways. They want casual sex for themselves but also want to marry someone without a casual sex history. How they get to know someone like that is a mystery because many only date those who will sleep with them on the first or second date.