You seem to be saying that he said women are not intelligent or capable.
Actually the fact Butker’s mother also has accomplished so much outside the home is why a lot of hearers were frustrated by some of his phrasing.
Life doesn’t just begin and end with marriage and children. It should come first (actually second. First priority is God, *then* spouse, then kids) - but not always at the expense of other callings God may have on their life.