[Ronaldus Magnus]

He made a promise. If my wife made me a promise to quit work, because she works too much, and broke the promise, it might be the end of the marriage.

You seem to have a lower level of commitment to your marriage than most people have to their pets!

[Jonty30]

I have a lower commitment to the marriage when the partner is demonstrating a lower commit to the marriage.

You can’t seriously expect to stay marriage if you have effectively abandoned the marriage for your interests.