Look at Ron Jeremy. That guy's entire job was to have sex with women, almost all of them young and beautiful. And he was still a rapist.
Did you know he’s been declared “cognitively impaired” and now resides in a mental institution?
I read that a number of female porn actors over the years had a standard request list for appearing. No rough beatings. No anal, and no Ron Jeremy (nicknamed the sweaty hairy hedgehog). Nowadays there is stuff out there “mainstream” that is too sad and frightening to watch, even at deer camp or a lodge meeting. And so it goes....