Very simple. Make your own rules. Don’t let someone who
doesn’t want to work tell you how to spend your money.
I went out for dinner and I tipped $15 on a $35 tab. My friend says, why do you even tip them? I explained my reasoning, and he says, how much do you think they make per hour? I called the waitress back and asked her how much and how many hours she and the cook get... just a little diner..... She says, $20 an hour, and they get 32-40 hours a week, depending on what they want to work. I cut back my tipping to a few bucks for the clean up girl, and leave it on the table. In this State of WAh, it is mandated they get 18 an hour, but they have to pay more to get better help. 18 is what they pay buristas and window money handlers at Mickey D’s.
BINGO! Tip for good service not a percent they think they’re owed.