Ill bet her biological mother and he father had some huge fights when she was 4-7 years old..
those are the little girl bonding to and figuring out what a man/father is.. Very Very important that little girls that age have positive and supportive male role models.
I cant stress it enough, Almost foolproof.. find a mentally ill woman as an adult and ask about her father/dad figure when she was small..
When I was a little girl of 5, I love my daddy far more than my mom. Used to walk around in his big slippers with his hat on my head. Liked to watch him shave in the morning too. Sometimes he’d put a dollop of shaving cream on my nose, which we both laughed about.
I often wished I’d grow up to be just like him, would rather run the company than be a housewife like my mom who criticized me all the time.
Today other adults might recommend thinking about “Gender Affirming”. actions. Big sigh. I grew up to be one of those “I enjoy being a girl” women. Just ask my kids.
I am sure that is true.
In this case, the father was strong and protective, and the birth mother was unself-controlled and abusive. She abandoned her children to him, and he eventually found this concerned and nurturing wife, who has been the chlld's mother figure for around 7 years. But the early damage was done, apparently by the mother, according to the other kids.
So yes, there probably were fights when she was 4-7 years old. But it sounds like, if this story is pretty accurate, that it was because of her dad trying to rescue his children from a disfunctional mother.
Is it too late for an abortion?