My husband is a pilot with over 30k flight hours spanning an almost 50 year career that includes not only flying commercial and private but being a flight instructor.
He told me that when they had awards or any kind of ceremony, the women would insist on nameplates that said CAPTAIN so and so and addressed as CAPTAIN so and so while the male pilots just went and had beers and were on a first name basis.
Over a 28 year career as a flight attendant, there were only 4 or 5 female pilots I felt were in the cockpit based on ability. There were some I would refuse to fly with and would bid around them.
Also this
Not too bad because usually they pair a baby boomer with a female pilot. So that's fine. Wait until all the baby boomers retire. And we see all female crews (I'm not against them if they got there on merit and they're actually competent).