If Jill Biden was caught on tape saying that under similar circumstances you’d be defending her then? Cool.
If the facts were the same and she was being disingenuously excoriated for it, then yes. It was obvious from the full conversation that Melania was reacting to her assistant pestering her over something that wasn’t urgent while she was focused on dealing with something more pressing. Her frustration wasn’t with Christmas (a ludicrous assertion), it was with her worm of an assistant pestering her about decorations for a holiday five or six months away while she was busy with more immediate concerns.
I don’t know why you’re trying so hard to be right about something that doesn’t matter unless you have some pathological chip on your shoulder over Trump.