The other part of the honor - well, the government, through a few alphabet agencies, has basically declared war on the US patriotic citizens. From J6 to covering for Biden to persecuting Trump and his followers to open borders to genocidal jabs, I just don’t see any honor in serving this government. Ours is the Nazi government that our parents and grandparents warned us about.
Neither do I, but my oath was to uphold the Constitution, and by extension, the people of this country. Nowadays it would be harder, but it is always a worthy goal to serve your neighbors. And in the end, that's what military service is at its core.