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My Boyfriend Wants Me to Help Him Pay Off His College Loan Debt, If I Don’t He May Leave Me
Atlantic Black Star via Yahoo ^ | October 31, 2023

Posted on 10/31/2023 1:35:03 PM PDT by grundle

Recently, he came to me with what he thought was a bright idea. He suggested that I use some of my stipend and also money from my loans and grants to help him repay his student loans.

I absolutely detest the idea and told him so.

During a recent argument, the ‘s’ word came out. He’s never called me selfish before, but now he’s calling me all sorts of names that have to do with me withholding money from him. He says he doesn’t want to be with someone who’s not willing to build with him and support him.

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KEYWORDS: dating; lol; manosphere; pua; redpill; relationships
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To: grundle

Run, dearie! Run as fast as you can!


41 posted on 10/31/2023 1:47:40 PM PDT by CFW (I will not comply!)
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To: grundle

Dump his ass. Clearly he’s a gold digger. Don’t be a sap.


42 posted on 10/31/2023 1:48:50 PM PDT by FLT-bird
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To: grundle

Just say no.


43 posted on 10/31/2023 1:49:12 PM PDT by Ge0ffrey
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To: grundle

Just by asking he should be out the door. Same if it were switched around and it was her asking.


44 posted on 10/31/2023 1:50:11 PM PDT by dgbrown
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To: grundle

Funny, it is almost the other way around. More females getting loans and useless degrees. The MSM has to find an example of a male taking advantage of a female.

For example, there was a divorced Democrat female lawyer who ran for Texas governor. She had divorced her husband after her law school tuition had been paid.


45 posted on 10/31/2023 1:50:25 PM PDT by alternatives?
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To: grundle

Total womanizer......kick him where it hurts and walk


46 posted on 10/31/2023 1:50:55 PM PDT by wardamneagle
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To: grundle

I smell nigerian prince.


47 posted on 10/31/2023 1:51:18 PM PDT by posterchild
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To: grundle

Dump him. Run! Fast and far away. What a creep.


48 posted on 10/31/2023 1:51:30 PM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom (“Occupy your mind with good thoughts or your enemy will fill them with bad ones.” ~ Thomas More)
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To: rlmorel

In every relationship, one person will love the other more/less than the other. My observation is that the boyfriend is the relatively more attractive person in the relationship and can demand more from her than she can from him.

She views herself as less able to replace him than he can replace her, so he’s demanding that she help him pay off his loands.

I would tell him to go pound sand, because it is better to live alone than to live with somebody who would demand you place yourself in a permanent disadvantage financially just so he doesn’t have to work as hard in life.


49 posted on 10/31/2023 1:51:50 PM PDT by Jonty30 (It turns out that I did not buy my cell phone for all the calls I might be missing at home.)
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To: grundle

Leave HIM. Why stay with an extortionist? He will be worse after/if you marry.


50 posted on 10/31/2023 1:53:41 PM PDT by madison10 (He watching over Israel slumbers not, nor sleeps.)
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To: grundle

As a basis for a sound relationship I’d rank this up there with Ted Bundy or maybe Charlie Manson...


51 posted on 10/31/2023 1:56:08 PM PDT by Billthedrill
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To: Jonty30

Absolutely.


52 posted on 10/31/2023 1:58:00 PM PDT by rlmorel ("If you think tough men are dangerous, just wait until you see what weak men are capable of." JBP)
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To: grundle

Don’t do it girl, your borrowed money being used to pay off his debt just leaves you with his debt should things fall apart.

Your parents are not supporting you through school so you can bail out your boyfriend.

Honestly you should let him break up with you, he is a complete loser.


53 posted on 10/31/2023 1:58:16 PM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: Gene Eric

Yes. Feminism has been, and is a cancer on society.


54 posted on 10/31/2023 1:59:15 PM PDT by rlmorel ("If you think tough men are dangerous, just wait until you see what weak men are capable of." JBP)
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To: grundle

This is what can happen when people fornicate instead of waiting for marriage. Her emotions are all tied up here. She would not be so reluctant to show him to the curb if she had not been so intimate, so vulnerable. Now she is going to have to face the fact that she should not have let that man in her pants.
I hope she comes out of this wiser, but is there anybody in her life that will teach her about her dignity, about finding a man of character?


55 posted on 10/31/2023 2:03:52 PM PDT by married21 (As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.)
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To: grundle

Only if he lets you castrate him...


56 posted on 10/31/2023 2:04:40 PM PDT by SuperLuminal (Where is the next Sam Adams when we so desperately need him)
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To: DeplorablePaul

The guy could be a little more subtle. Maybe he would take less-time to negotiate terms!


57 posted on 10/31/2023 2:05:34 PM PDT by whistleduck
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To: grundle

Simple. Leave him first.


58 posted on 10/31/2023 2:05:57 PM PDT by hinckley buzzard ( Resist the narrative)
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To: grundle

You’ve got to be kidding! This is a no-brainer...even for a non-degreed girlfriend a/k/a “Fool”.


59 posted on 10/31/2023 2:06:04 PM PDT by MHT
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To: grundle

So you are saying that the problem appears to be resolving itself.


60 posted on 10/31/2023 2:07:15 PM PDT by sipow
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