Posted on 10/31/2023 1:35:03 PM PDT by grundle
Run, dearie! Run as fast as you can!
Dump his ass. Clearly he’s a gold digger. Don’t be a sap.
Just say no.
Just by asking he should be out the door. Same if it were switched around and it was her asking.
Funny, it is almost the other way around. More females getting loans and useless degrees. The MSM has to find an example of a male taking advantage of a female.
For example, there was a divorced Democrat female lawyer who ran for Texas governor. She had divorced her husband after her law school tuition had been paid.
Total womanizer......kick him where it hurts and walk
I smell nigerian prince.
Dump him. Run! Fast and far away. What a creep.
In every relationship, one person will love the other more/less than the other. My observation is that the boyfriend is the relatively more attractive person in the relationship and can demand more from her than she can from him.
She views herself as less able to replace him than he can replace her, so he’s demanding that she help him pay off his loands.
I would tell him to go pound sand, because it is better to live alone than to live with somebody who would demand you place yourself in a permanent disadvantage financially just so he doesn’t have to work as hard in life.
Leave HIM. Why stay with an extortionist? He will be worse after/if you marry.
As a basis for a sound relationship I’d rank this up there with Ted Bundy or maybe Charlie Manson...
Absolutely.
Don’t do it girl, your borrowed money being used to pay off his debt just leaves you with his debt should things fall apart.
Your parents are not supporting you through school so you can bail out your boyfriend.
Honestly you should let him break up with you, he is a complete loser.
Yes. Feminism has been, and is a cancer on society.
This is what can happen when people fornicate instead of waiting for marriage. Her emotions are all tied up here. She would not be so reluctant to show him to the curb if she had not been so intimate, so vulnerable. Now she is going to have to face the fact that she should not have let that man in her pants.
I hope she comes out of this wiser, but is there anybody in her life that will teach her about her dignity, about finding a man of character?
Only if he lets you castrate him...
The guy could be a little more subtle. Maybe he would take less-time to negotiate terms!
Simple. Leave him first.
You’ve got to be kidding! This is a no-brainer...even for a non-degreed girlfriend a/k/a “Fool”.
So you are saying that the problem appears to be resolving itself.
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