“If men want women to know they value more about them than looks, then men need to act like looks are not all they value in women.”
This is where you are absolutely wrong. I watch men all the time show they appreciate their women for far more than their looks.... I also watch a lot of, particularly young women, just take the men in their lives for granted and think they are somehow goddesses and the men should just be grateful they let them be around.
If you think your looks trump all, you are a very large fool... and thanks to social media.. there are a lot of damn fool women running around anymore.
Yes, you look good in a skimpy bikini and if you post your pic online you will get all the superficial adoration you want from guys... but you think that means you can just treat people like crap because “I’m Hot” deal with it... then you are a very very lousy human being.
Then men need to stop sending the message that looks trump all.
I've seen enough crazy/hot matrix comments and of course, as I mentioned before, the *guilty/not guilty* judgments based SOLELY on looks.
but you think that means you can just treat people like crap because “I’m Hot” deal with it... then you are a very very lousy human being.
I do? Where did I say that? Or what did I post that even implied that?
Why would you presume I think that way?
This is a huge problem a lot of young women have particularly if they are attractive.....taking all the benefits they get from it for granted. They think they're just that great or that it will last forever and they're entitled to it. It comes as a rude shock when they hit the wall and start getting treated like everybody else. I've seen plenty of them get very bitter about it.
And no, this isn't just to bash women. Its the exact same phenomenon with somebody who is born to a rich influential family and thinks they then got where they got because they earned it when in reality, it was all just given to them because of an accident of birth.....ie "he was born on 3rd base and thinks he hit a triple". Its the same thing with pretty women. The smart ones realize their good fortune and get the most value for it they can because good looks doesn't last.