Womens debt is a big deal deal today for men dating. We are at an all time high in consumer and school loan debt and women have 2/3s of it. Marry into that without a prenup and that debt is now yours.
Agreed and that debt is not worth it. The woman has no intrisic value that would justify taking over that debt let alone living with a person who goes into such debt in the first place. I once went on one date with a woman and I found out she was in 6 figure debt feom law school. I never dated her again.
This is why women used to come into a potential marriage with a dowry from the family so as to make to make the woman more attractive to potential suitors. Thjsbwas also a way to marry off less attractive girls. Does thjs reduce the woman to just a value proposition? Yes, it does and we are seeing that massive debt makes a woman extremely unattractive.