That's not how it works nowadays. Women are looking for alpha males. They don't want a "nice guy".
I guess alpha male are dumb then. The guy should be a real alpha male and take her to the campgrounds and have her cook beans and weenies after a 5 mile hike.
Unfortunately, the sort of woman that would be OK with a “nice guy” is USUALLY only OK with the “nice guy” because he let her move in and sponge off of him.
In other words, the sort of woman who would likely be in a homeless shelter if she didn’t have someone to sponge off of.
She doesn’t “love” the nice guy for who he is, but for all the stuff she gets from him.
These women are a dime a dozen and have all sorts of issues—BPD, bipolar, mommy issues, daddy issues, drug issues.
Better off single and lonely than dealing with one of those, IMHO.
That's pretty much how it's always been. All 'nice guys' get is frustration and loneliness.
Too many of them can't tell the difference between and Alpha Male and an "Alpha Hotel".