IMO anyone can afford a divorce. Many men reject the concept of payments to support not only to wives who stayed home to raise the kids, but even the kids.
Our whole society is far too tied to material wealth at this point. How many farm out the raising of their babies and small children to daycare, so they don’t lose the benefit of a double-income household?
Men reject the impoverishment that follows a divorce. That is why most people are no longer marrying. Your position presupposes fair treatment, which is not the case in family courts today.