Exactly, why do people think they can work with the opposite sex, look your best, be on best behavior then come home and the spouses give each other the left overs. Both spouses working is why divorce is rampant but everyone thinks they can beat the odds. The risk isnt worth it.
I agree. It’s easier for both when their daily interactions with each other is limited. No long hours with each other.
But also remember to love your spouse. If you won’t love your spouse, it’s not reasonable to expect them to believe they are loved by you.