We were dating when it hit her. I went from married to widower {via of a massive heart attack} to married and caregiver within literally 6 months. She passed in 2015 at the age of 64. Pneumonia had set in and 30 years of contortion on her body took it's toll.
She was on a vent for her last 3 weeks. Vents is what took the place of Iron Lungs. Long term wise they do not send a patient home on a Vent and only a handfull of facilities in the USA accept long term Vent patients. The nearest one was almost 500 miles in West Virginia.
You are a man among men. Thank you for your devotion to your wife.