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To: larrytown
Versus passive-aggressive postings of a 'cycle of grief' graph?

Well, at least you noticed the graph.;-)

I knew of a guy once who got laid off from his job and he would still drive to the office each morning and just sit in his car in the parking lot. The security guard, who knew him, would go over to him each morning and try to tell him that he couldn't do that, that he was scaring people. And my friend would look at the security guard and say, "What are you trying to tell me? I work here."

Turns out the guy hadn't even told his wife that he had been laid off. Security had to call the wife and get her to convince him not to keep driving to the office each morning.

And, frankly, it's not like this guy was crazy. He just couldn't accept that he'd been laid off (his entire department had been cut).

Apparently his wife eventually convinced him because he got another job and life returned to normal.

I joke about denial, but it is VERY common.

114 posted on 08/02/2023 11:24:44 AM PDT by RoosterRedux
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To: RoosterRedux

I can see how the guy coming to sit in the parking lot each day would scare people, thinking maybe he was about to come in and start shooting.


115 posted on 08/02/2023 11:29:40 AM PDT by citizen (Put all LBQTwhatever programming on a new subscription service: PERV-TV)
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To: RoosterRedux

“Turns out the guy hadn’t even told his wife that he had been laid off.”

There are a lot of other cases where the guy accepts that he has been laid off but still puts on the work clothes every morning and then just goes to a local park or something during the “work day” to avoid telling his wife what has happened.

If they can get a new job relatively quickly they might get away with it—and in some cases save their marriage.


119 posted on 08/02/2023 11:46:21 AM PDT by cgbg (Claiming that laws and regs that limit “hate speech” stop freedom of speech is “hate speech”.)
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