Fit men are gay... and you don’t realize how seriously dumb that is.
Most men in my family, going back a few generations now, made time for fitness and the gym and stayed in amazing shape.. all while raising families.
None were gay... you’re just ignorant, and probably a fatso.
I am not the shape that used to be in. However, I have to work 290 hours/month and take care of my father, who has dementia.
Of course I can’t say what I said applies to everybody, but however you spend your time is going to cost you, in terms of time, the ability to participate in other activities. If you’re spending a considerable time on your fitness, it will come out in another area that you can’t be bothered to spend any time one.