**...what God intended...**
I am sooooo grateful for my mother who sat me down when I turned 16, locked her eyes on mine, and gave me what was truly a ‘serious as life and death’ talk.
It helped being a late bloomer, as I didn’t stop growing until 19, and had nothing much to shave until then as well. Therefore, I wasn’t attactive to the pretty girls I was interested in. So, ‘getting it on’ wasn’t going to happen. I also was taught to respect the opposite sex, and... myself.
Mom’s advice, and being patient won me an awesome wife (our 45th is in 6 weeks, and I’m soooo glad we learned together).
She died childless or abandoned?
More sex education was needed.