I’d like to weigh in on the HG situation.
If (using “if” not because I don’t believe you) this is indeed how he’s treating you then I’d say that not only is he a coward for using pm’s rather than just being a man about it but you also OWN him …it’s not the other way around. Somehow you got to him, you’re in his head. He’s harassing you privately just makes him a schmuck. That you are trying to get it out here among friends is a natural reaction.
My theory certainly does not make it easier for you to bear, there is just more than one way to look at something
God Bless,
KC
Thanks KittenClaws. I concur with your assessment.
While I don’t want to own him, I do think he needs looking out for.
I imagine Management, if it cares and has the time, can see the whole of it,
but they were already in the habit of cleaning up after him almost as fast as his
targets knew they were hit, up until his posting was stopped over that January event.
I suspect that him PMing only saves a lot of work in comparison.
Posting the worst of it here would likely be disturbing to everyone’s calm,
and even more disruptive. (It lacks his public restraint.)
~Easy