>>What other reason would a woman wear clothes like that other than to get men to look?<<
Women wear revealing clothes to advertise to the men THEY find desirable. Evidently she didn’t regard you as being in that category.
Women want the best guy they can get. By your dating to look you signalled that you are the best she’s likely to get, and this insulted her.
Saturday Night Live - Sexual Harassment Training (from back when they were actually funny)
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PxuUkYiaUc8
The skit is both funny and weirdly accurate.
Was in college when SNL started.
Saturday night parties would come to halt and TVs would turn on when SNL came on!
Fun times!