The term "toxic masculinity" refers to traits of Godly men, i.e. exactly the opposite of what the author suggests. The concept of "toxic masculinity" is designed to silence and shame Godly men.
If you want more Godly men, then you need more Godly women.
Why are so many men turning to drugs, sports, video games, etc? Because they have given up on the idea of having godly and devoted wives of their own. The women no longer save themselves for marriage, and in too many marriages do not have much interest in keeping their husbands happy.
You have women throwing themselves at the most desirable men and showing contempt for “average” men.
If the women in pastors’ pews were interested in being chaste and godly wives, then you would not HAVE to preach to men, as they would be competing vigorously to be the kind of man who would be worthy of a good wife.
But preachers are afraid of insulting the women in their congregations, so they do not call them out for their sins. Berating men is safe. Chastising badly behaving women is dangerous, and too many pastors are cowards. They operate as businessmen who need paying seats, rather than preachers of God’s Word. Hardly any of them are willing to risk financial martyrdom.
Signed
A husband of a good wife who follows Proverbs 31.