I think part of the problem here, is that the bride will lose her bridesmaid, if she doesn’t allow the son to be at the wedding.
Lose the bridesmaid or lose the wedding…
Not much of a choice here.
Buh- by bridesmaid
You are correct. The Bride knew her friend’s son had behaviior issues prior to asking her to be the Brides’s Maid. It is the Bride’s mistake in not covering this issue at the time she asked he friend to be part of the wedding party. Bringing up up just prior to the wedding shows she was thoughtless about her friends most important family member/child.
All that being said, we have a supposedly autistic boy in our church. His mother is a child psychologist. I thing the boy needed to be told how to behave at 2 though 5 and now at 8 it is too late. Therefore she calls it autism and is creating a mentally ill child. The kid will be messed up in other ways as the dad is the most whipped milquetoast guy one can imagine.