Yeah...it appears today, culturally, girls are almost expected to have some “hoe years” where they rack up a few “hook ups”, resulting in a “high body count”.
When they realize, as they approach 30, those same “top guys” are now still not committing to them and are going after younger girls (because there will ALWAYS be younger girls looking to do exactly the same thing), they want to “settle down” with a traditional guy. Except they’re nothing like a traditional woman. Now, all the good guys are taken (or most are *still* not good enough), they realize any chance of having kids is quickly evaporating and they panic. This is where we call it “hitting the wall”, many don’t see it coming.
The same goes for married women, with kids, that divorce. The last time they dated was in their ‘20s, where they’d still get lots of attention. They think they’ll just go back to that, then find most single guys aren’t interested in a divorced, 30 something, mother - and are shocked!
All part of the culture rot I suppose.
Those over 30 women just get used until the guy get tired of her crap. I’m not your ex and you aren’t going to treat me like it.