My wife's first labor went on for quite a while. Wasn't very interested in eating her lunch. I, on the other hand, was very interested in her lovely meatball sub and Italian salad. So I snarfed them down.
She delivered the baby, washed her face and asked, "So where's my lunch?"
Maybe the guys enjoy the first. I don’t know any woman who ‘enjoyed’ the first. The later ones are easier.