Right !! you don't advertize ! - you use furring strips around the outside of your "black out drapes" (easily reinstalled and removed at minimal expense).
You become "The Grey man", and wear blending-in clothing just like your neighbors. If they wear dungarees, you also wear them too; save the Calvin Clines for elsewhere.
Transport of quantities of long-term food stores occurs in your garage, or, late at night if you don't have a garage.
I have heard the suggestion that you have and wear some oversized, kind of worn out clothes to give the appearance that you are also short on food and losing weight like everyone else.