Wow. It’s like bizarro world. I understand. My husband is high risk and my family won’t forgive me for not getting vaxxed to “save” him.
You can’t do much for a high risk spouse when you are dead. I told Mike that. Didn’t do any good.
He was a true friend and did the handyman thing for my wife when I was working away from home, which is almost constant.
He is missed.