1) hope you recover from the bashing you (deservedly) will get.
2) I read once that a baby boy in the womb has a wash of testosterone over him that separates the communication between parts of the brain in the two hemispheres. After that the male can take charge of a physical attack defense or focus entirely on one problem to solve it. He may not pick up clues that someone is fooling him or cheating him while a female will notice these. He also has to struggle to “get in touch with his feminine side” to avoid simple aggressive, battling goal seeking all the time.
The female baby does not get that “wash” of testosterone on her brain in the womb. She is free to access any part of the brain at any time and my become distracted during an attack or a crisis but she can find ways to protect a child or herself by finding one way that will work instead of sticking to one like a male. But she has to work harder to stay focused on one task in a goal oriented situation.
I’ve got a large collection of flame retardant suits given to me by freepers through the years.