Well said.
I lost a family member to suicide.
At the time the family focused on the disgrace. Later I pondered on what he must have been going through to take such a drastic action.
Never did find out why.....
He was a senior officer in the Royal Navy and no doubt anything related to his job would have been hushed up.
My mother committed suicide in the summer following my graduation from high school. A nephew killed himself just five years ago. The family never recovers. Some feel disgrace, but most try to second guess if they were the reason or failed to be the prevention. I know you and I share a permanent and profound wound.