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I know that it hurts I’ve been there too freaking many times Myself. From My Father’s death from a rare disease called Wegener’s Granulomatosis in a matter of weeks. He was as Christian as one could be and spent His 72 years on earth serving God any and every way He could. Before that My Fiancé slid off the road in a rainstorm, the car flipped over landing in a creek and She drowned, still strapped in the seatbelt. She was an excellent swimmer but She was knocked unconscious and couldn’t get out of the car. Stacey was 34 years old. I still think about Her every day. Next was Ken who I worked with in the water treatment plant for only about 8 months. He was the best Operator I ever knew teaching me things that weren’t in the books. He suddenly got liver cancer and in a few months it was everywhere including His brain. I quitmy job to be His unofficial hospice nurse and was giving Him morphine drops at 2am when He took His last breath. Ken was 52. Ken was the great-great-great grandson of the real Walker Texas Ranger. Ken always had a joke at hand or a family story. I still think about Him every day. Next, shortly after Ken was my 2nd Wife who was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer shortly before we were married. After chemotherapy, a mastectomy and radiation it spread to Her brain and She died before our 1st anniversary. Deborah was 58. She’s on the every day list also. Next came Mom. She had bad dementia the last few years of Her life. She died at 92 in a care center. I could write a book about Her and Dad putting up with raising me but not in this Post. Again on the daily list. Then my Brother’s Wife of 54 years from liver disease. In the first 4 years of my current (3rd) marriage my wife lost her Uncle, 2 Aunts and her Mother. All were the typical Italian Catholic Funerals. I can’t remember how many Dogs I’ve lost.

So been there, done that and lost the T-shirt or Trophy.

I’m going to be blunt here Shari.

Suck it up and fight for what’s YOURS !!! You are stronger than this !!! You know it, I know it and Your FRiends know it !!!’ So kick that can of shit out of Your yard and down the road, hell kick it into freaking orbit !!! Fight for Yourself like You fight for Your Dogs 🐾 🐕🐾

Now on to business.:

Have You gathered up any of the Paperwork I told You that would be needed ? YES or NO ?

Have You made any NEW calls to any placess see on the List I sent to You ? YES or NO ?

Has this “son” actually tried to get ANYTHING or is this in Your head and You’re using it as a wall because Your give-a-shit factor is going further downhill ? The TRUTH in Your answer please.

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Ma, I am trying to wrap my head around this:

“…Before that My Fiancé slid off the road in a rainstorm, the car flipped over landing in a creek and She drowned, still strapped in the seatbelt. She was an excellent swimmer but She was knocked unconscious and couldn't get out of the car. Stacey was 34 years old. I still think about Her every day. Next, shortly after Ken was my 2nd Wife who was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer shortly before we were married. After chemotherapy, a mastectomy and radiation it spread to Her brain and She died before our 1st anniversary. Deborah was 58. She's on the every day list also.”

I'm sorry, but I thought you were a woman. I apologize if I ever referred to you, wrongly.