Why, no. No, I don't. What I want is for the server to take my order and bring what I asked for quickly. I don't want the server to be my friend, and I'm not interested in the server's opinions about anything, including the food. Yes, I tip handsomely for good service.
And I have no desire to know their name. . .and I refuse to give them my first name. . .my name when dining is “Mr XXXXXX” and this makes clear, not in a overly rude way, this is a professional interaction, not-a-lets-be-friends-exercise.