Simple solution. She should stay with her friend in NYC from November to May and join her husband in Florida from June to October. That way she would get the best weather both places have to offer.
Bingo! Perfect candidate to become a ‘Snowbird’.
“She should stay with her friend in NYC from November to May and join her husband in Florida from June to October.”
Two of my wife’s siblings and their wives, split the seasons.
They had long term ressies at timeshares in Floriduh starting the first week in December and they returned to their MidWest homes after Easter. One couple stayed on the East Coast side and the other couple stayed on the West Coast side.
They talked on phones several times a week and met halfway for lunch a couple times each month. They did that back in the MidWest.
Covid B$ and the death of one of the wives stopped that process.
And her husband would get a break from this lunatic for half the year.