[SauronOfMordor]

What’s killing us are these legions of women that want college, career, retirement funds, 3 trips around the world then maybe they will try and have a kid at 36.

I agree that it may be a civilizational mistake for women to defer having kids in favor of career and material benefits. What worked throughout history, was for a girl to marry young, to an older man who was able to support her.

[Phoenix8]

100%

Looking back on it I never should have married at 20. I was not a great dad at early 20s while my wife only 18 fit into motherhood like a duck first going into water.

I should have married at 30 (even 35) to an 18 year old….I would have appreciated my children like I do my grandchildren now. And I probably would have cherished my wife more as well in her role.