Just the other day I was in the grocery store and a father was shopping with his 2 kids, maybe 3 and 5, they each had a basket for groceries and running around. He said sorry for the kids running around and I said they’re having fun! No need to say sorry as I had a few kids many years ago. I think its great that they are out learning. I have 1 grand kid so far.
We only have 1 grandchild so far also.
I loved being a mom, and spending time with my children when they were little. It’s important for kids to experience things like going grocery shopping, and eating dinner out politely. I’m glad you put that father at ease. Children need to be children and not just little adults. That’s where my MIL got it wrong.