I agree. It is like they have this idea that things are great if you live in a $2M home.
That’s probably just about the average price for a normal dwelling in Andover.
Sometimes people that are in really big houses are also in really big debt. Therefore, IF something changes with their cash flow, their world comes crashing down.
There is a story here in southern NH from twenty years ago about a rich guy that lived in a big fancy house.
One day he went down to the Nashua airport, took off in his private plane, flew over to his house west of town and dive bombed the plane into the house. He killed himself and burned the house to the ground. Fortunately, his wife and son were not home. She wanted a divorce.