I didn’t say most older men can get a younger woman. I said that’s what they are attracted to.
Also you say having men want you is an exhausting pain in the ass. Well....its an exhausting pain the ass the vast majority of women put a lot of effort into so obviously there must be a lot of upside in it for women, else they wouldn’t do it.
Unwanted attention from male adults started at age 10...tell me how I provoked it? I could not even ride my bike down the street without whistles, cat calls and the old if I told you you had a nice body would you hold it against me?