Let’s just suppose, for the moment, that your son who is otherwise a good kid in as some shortsighted prank slapped some random woman on the butt.
Just suppose ...
Would you agree he should have his life destroyed forever with a felony conviction that would make it impossible for him to get a job at 60 or if the father tracked him down and killed him would you throw up your hands and say ‘oh well, I love my son but I guess he deserved it’?
Its about proportionality not justifying an overreaction by only taking the pov of the aggrieved party.
Would you like to answer the question?