Men don't tend to spill their guts to the world. It's not a conspiracy. You just don't find men who want to sit down at a computer and tell the world about the woman who dumped them.
No one gives a shiite about men, thats why we don’t write about our problems. Stop whining, quit complaining. Man up. Deal with it. You sound like a girl.
Which is why men, never listen to anyone, especially women, telling you you need to open up. Its a trap. They wont be compassionate, it will be viewed as weakness on your part, and it will destroy their respect and relationship with you. If they perceive you as weak it means they cant be weak and lean on you, its a huge turnoff no matter what they say otherwise.