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As consultant clinical psychologist Emma Citron (citronpsychology.co.uk) explains: “Gentle parenting has likely become another fad, but it’s merely a different name for old rope.

“Any type of parenting should be encouraged to be gentle parenting – in psychology, we call it positive parenting. It’s based on the idea that we notice the positive things children do and make a fuss of them, but ignore the silly things, because the model is encouraging good behaviours rather than poor.”

She says there’s no need for punishments or negativity if you have a good relationship with your child, based on listening and gentle communication. So, for example, instead of saying, ‘Get your feet off the couch’, it’s more helpful to say, ‘I’d prefer you not to put your feet on the couch because the mud gets on and I have to wash the covers’.

“You can have consequences,” explains Citron, “but there’s no need to raise voices or be negative or punitive – all that does is erode the relationship and the trust and communication between you.”

1 posted on 12/23/2022 7:30:12 PM PST by DoodleBob
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So another name for Spare the rod, spoil the child.

Didn’t work well before, won’t now.


77 posted on 12/23/2022 10:44:08 PM PST by FreedomPoster (Islam delenda est)
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These parents should relax. Sadly, it appears that Santa was shot down earlier today. Though reports vary, we have actual in-flight proof.

I don't know if they used an AMRAAM or used an old supercooled-tracking-head-expanding-rod Sidewinder from Vietnam. Mark17 may know the answer.

Chode has the picture.
78 posted on 12/23/2022 10:54:06 PM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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Brats in the making.

She’s got the perfect recipe for raising little terrors.

And that isn’t about her decision about Santa..

FWIW, we didn’t raise our kids with Sanaa. We told them the TRUE meaning of Christmas, it being about Jesus and God’s greatest gift of all, and didn’t lie to them about it being all about gift giving to each other.

That woman is just replacing one lie with another.


81 posted on 12/24/2022 1:40:46 AM PST by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith…)
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Don’t worry about it everybody - the elves and reindeer want to work from home so Santa has to find a new gig.


82 posted on 12/24/2022 1:42:57 AM PST by Palio di Siena
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Christ is after all the reason for CHRISTmas.

If the predictable sourpuss faces want to take out the happiness part of the season, let them just watch Hallmark Christmas movies where the death of Mother, Father, Wife, Husband, Aunt, Uncle, Cousin and whatever HANGS LIKE GHOSTS OF ALL CHRISTMASES and leaves you with a feeling of despair.

AS for me, I’ll look for the JOY and OPTIMISM of Christmas.

I think THAT is what HE would want.

SAVE SANTA!


85 posted on 12/24/2022 1:49:26 AM PST by Maris Crane ( )
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Leftism is based on make-believe (global warming, boys can be girls, white supremacy, Russiagate, etc.), but they attack innocent make-believe.


90 posted on 12/24/2022 5:15:05 AM PST by UnwashedPeasant (The pandemic we suffer from is not COVID. It is Marxist Democrat Leftism.)
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Losers are a thing.


91 posted on 12/24/2022 5:16:25 AM PST by Vision (Woke is communism and it has no place in America. Election Reform Now! Obama is an evildoer.)
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Then tell them about Jesus, which is the truth.


104 posted on 12/24/2022 7:10:54 AM PST by beethovenfan (The REAL Great Reset will be when Jesus returns. )
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