My daughters were homeschooled by the way. I feel for you. I know what those things are like. If it is any consolation, those negative experiences are an opportunity to build character. Going along to get alone doesn’t make for strong character. God gives us tests in the most unexpected ways. That may seem easy for me to say since those days are a decade in the past, but given distance and hindsight, it is completely worth it. Keep the faith.
If you look at the total number of books; I believe you will find that ‘To Kill a Mocking Bird’ or ‘Tom Sawyer’ is the most banned book.