[eyeamok]

kids are given to mom, the lesser earner, so they can make money off of child support processing and alimony.

Not always!, I was awarded full custody of my daughter and the court gave me full custody of the Mothers Son also, she got monitored visitation at my discretion. I did ruin the career of 2 lawyers in the Child Support division when they tried to Sue me for Child Support without ever checking the records which said I had full custody and control. The judge read them the riot act in open court

[Secret Agent Man]

The vast majority are, as to be the rule. You know this. You are an exception. Exceptions are not the rule.