Celibate literally means—single. Unmarried.
Holy Mother Church is clear on this.
Everyone is to exercise “chastity” according to their state in life. This is true even married men, for whom chastity means, the marital union, with one’s wife, in such a way as to remain open to the procreation of children, and that, is, it.
Unmarried men, like priests, are to remain sexually “continent”. Find something else to do with yourself and stop trying to pursue a so-called “sex life”.
No pornographic materials, no self abuse, if you see “something”, don’t sweat it. Just look away. Custody of the eyes is key.
“the marital union, with one’s wife, in such a way as to remain open to the procreation of children, and that, is, it.”
So I should divorce my post-menopausal wife and find a younger, fertile chick?
But "incel" means involuntarily celibate.
Whole different ball game!
Regards,