You’re on ss. Hes a big boy now, Let him buy his own safe.
My son is taking care of me in my old age, taking me into his own home. He’s taken time off work both when I had kidney stones and broke my arm last year to cart me back and forth to hospital and doctor’s appointments. I have use of his truck when he’s not using it, which is most of the time, and he pays the insurance. How many sons do that for their mom? It is a small thing for me to get him a gun safe.
You’re a big boy now apparently.....go buy your own Christmas and birthday presents.
Be extra sure to destroy the joy of giving by someone who cares.