Exactly. I try to get that seat on the rare occasion I fly. On some planes the very back seats have more legroom as do the very front. (Not first class)
You can blame the airlines for this predicament. They were the ones that approached the plane manufacturers to try and squeeze the seats in order to cram more passengers on a flight. I’m over 6’5” and if I can’t get a seat in the emergency exit row, I don’t go.