Mean have a prototype they’ll compromise on.
Women have a floor they won’t go below.
Plenty of men who dream of D-cups are happily married to B-cups.
Tell a woman who has $100k plus income on her list you make $40k and you go immediately into the not-marriage-material zone.
Tell a $75k managerial woman you make $100k, but you're a plumber, and you go immediately into the not-marriage-material zone