I’m a 62 yr old female. Everyone and I mean everyone I come in to contact with guesses 42. Both my parents were proofed for 18 well into their late 30s. There’s no way I would try to pull off pigtails or anything for the under 50 set.
I enjoy a person who is happy, internally consistent with what they are doing, enjoys making people smile EVEN if it is to produce the effect in the opposite sex when there isn’t really any...overt sexual thing going on.
They can do things like wearing pigtails or whatever, and even if they don’t carry it well, if it is in good spirits, it is great. I love that kind of thing.
It makes me smile, and God knows, I can use that anytime these days!
But someone who does it to get money and is disgusted by the reaction to it is...well, contemptible!